Forget the introvert-extrovert labels

Forget the introvert-extrovert labels. What truly matters is your contribution score in meetings, gatherings, and 1:1s.

My journey? From college introvert to design-driven extrovert, finally settling as an ambivert.

But in 2024, I had an epiphany: speak only when you have something worthwhile to share. That's your contribution score.

Now, I listen actively when I don't have input. Your respect is directly proportional to your contribution, regardless of personality type. If a topic's new, I'm upfront: "I'm here to absorb. Call on me for specific insights."

Result? Less talking, higher contribution. Quality trumps quantity every time.

Tips to boost your score:

1. Shape the agenda. Add your items.

2. Prepare thoroughly. Two weeks of work for two minutes of speaking.

3. Build allies beforehand. A +1 in the room amplifies your impact.

4. Stay silent if you've nothing to add. No fluff.

5. Back your words with references, files, and one-pagers.

Pro tip: Watch reactions. If people lean in, you're adding value. If they're on their phones, time to smile and stop.

Remember, it's not about being heard. It's about making every word count.

What more will you add to this list?