Apr 14, 2025
Heavy thing
You write every day. You walk every day. You show up, you ship, you get things done. Yet, a quiet emptiness hums beneath the rhythm.
From the outside, your life looks full. Full of motion. Full of progress. Full of wins. But deep down, you know the truth: it’s not the volume of doing that matters — it’s the weight.
You’re no longer moved by lightness. Light workouts. Light writing. Light learning.
You crave something with gravity — something that presses back, demands more, grounds you in meaning. You want to feel the weight of purpose in your bones.
If you feel that longing, you're not alone. Especially now — when AI can create the illusion of depth in a single tap. The world is fast producing heavy-looking things made lightly. But your soul knows the difference.
Heaviness is human. It comes from effort, not ease. It comes from making something that costs you something.
So what do you do when the lightness starts to float you away? You anchor yourself. You choose the heavy things. Deliberately. Repeatedly.
That means: 75 Hard. Goggins mode. 200-day commitments. A damn book, not just daily blurbs. Learning that stretches your mind, not just stimulates it. Workouts that shake you up, not just wind you down. Build something with force that bends reality around it.
You stop flirting with meaning and go all in. You stop romanticizing burnout and start embracing resilience. You trade lightness for legacy.
Because your future self — the one living the life that current-you is aching for — They’ll look back and say: Thank you for choosing the heavy thing.
